I always get asked this question from my clients......How do I tell my friends they are not invited? It can be a sticky situation and you can be put on the spot when friends start to inquire about your wedding. Here's a couple ways to break the bad news in a very PC way when you are faced with the question, "Can I come?"
~If you are having a small wedding, then that's an easy one. Just explain that you really wish you could include all your friends, but the venue is very space restricted so it's turning out to be more of an intimate, family affair. Blaming your venue is a "no brainer".
~Play the economy card: Explain that since you and your fiance are covering the costs of the wedding yourselves, you've had to scale way back on the size of the guest list. Your friends will understand that you still have to pay your mortgage during the wedding planning.
~If you're parents are footing the bill, blame them: This one never fails. Simply explain that since youre parents are paying the tab, you have to stick within their budget and head count; therefore, you won't be able to invite everyone you want to. Blaming your parents for stuff never grows old:)
Ultimately there is never an easy way to let friends know they aren't invited! If they are your real friends then they'll suck it up and throw you a fabulous party when you get home....hint hint!
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