The Toasting How To's:

Wedding toasts are meant to wish the bride and groom a lifetime of happiness. Here a few hints on how to make the perfect toast!

1) What: Toast's should always be about the bride and groom. Start by mentioning your connection to the couple and end with a wish for all the happiness in the world for them. Make sure to stay clean and upbeat!

2) Who: Most commonly, the best man and the maid-of-honor are the ones to give the toast. However, weddings these days are having anyone speak from fathers, to the bride or groom. Whoever the couple chooses to speak, always plan on the time and order of the toasts to be given - you don't want anything to be left unknown!

3)Where: Standing at the microphone to make your toast, or simply starting to speak at your table are both options for locations to give your toast. Just make sure to speak loudly and clearly so everyone can hear the wonderful words you've chosen to honor the bride and groom.

4) When: When deciding on when to give the toast, consider when you will have your audience's fullest attention. A few good times are right after the first dance, or before the first course is served. Be sure to let the toastgivers know when the toasts are coming so they can be prepared and ready to go.

5) How: Short and sweet is the best way to go! Anything longer than 3 minutes will lose the attention of most guests. Say all your good wishes, great memories, and adoring words, then sit down.

A tip for the Bride and Groom: When someone is giving the toast, stay seated and maintain eye contact with the toast giver. Since the toast is being given to you, dont drink directly after the toast to avoid looking as if you are drinking to yourselves - wait a few minutes and then join along with the rest of your guests.